A Few Things to Do

Small Steps to Total Submission

I understand that total submission, total enslavement, and the act of completely giving oneself to another is not an easy choice. But as these words describe, "promise to love, honor and obey" becoming your husband's property is a rightful passage in a woman's life. Nothing more can be better than understanding you live as his property, to serve him in all things, and above all else his word is your command. But once again, the process is not simple. Particurlarly in a world that denigrates the rightful place of women and calls the whole idea 'offensive and demeaning'. I believe that becoming a good wife is neither easy not simply a process of taking a few steps. It is ultimately understanding your love for your Master/Husband, displaying that to him and to the world, and reasoning how you can better better as well. However, these few steps can help as well.

1.) Begin by calling all men, including your husband, Sir.

For example: I began at an early age to call all the men in my life by the respectful title of Sir. I would be difficult but it immediately reminded me of my place.

2.) Dress to please your husband, learn what he likes and remember modesty is only compared to his standards.

For example: Your husband can prefer for you to dress more modestly, either covering most of your body from head to toe; or like my husband, being completely naked in the house and whenever very little in public.

3.) Kneel before your Husband/Master when possible.

For example: Before my husband comes home from home(usually around 4:15), I make sure I am before the door and kneel down to show his mastery over me. Sometimes, he pets me with great affection, pats me on butt ;), or simply commands me to get him something; either way this is a simple way of being a good wife.

4.) Learn to cook and moreover improve your craft of cooking

For example: I grew up as the only daughter in my family so of course learning to cook was really important but I would learn new recipes that he like just to be a better wife. Don't buy a cook book however, this is a great way to build a relationship with his mother.

5.) Keep your house immaculate

For example: My schedule is a simple way consists of waking up, being let out of my cage, being taken outside to pee, pleasing him, and making him breakfast. Then from the time he leaves to the time he gets home, I make sure the place is immaculate and comfortable. Tip: make sure the house is comfortable not just clean.

6.) Allow him to be the only breadwinner.

For example: This is one of the most controversial ones, I think. I understand that in this economy any job is good and therefore why quit. Simple... only he should be the breadwinner. First of all, I don't believe women, particurlarly wives, should have jobs at all. If only men could be employed, there would be so many more jobs available. But if you do work(sighs), make sure he gets all the money.

7.) Always ask permission before doing something

For example: Of course my husband is giving me permission to write this... I am micromanaged 24/7. I can breathe, show emotion, move my body, etc. Yet I am always to ask permission in everything else.

8.) Keep yourself in good (health) condition and maintain a pleasing demeaner

For example: Exercise daily and eat healthy, for the benefit of both Master and slave.

9.) Be sexually available at all times

For example: Husbands are sometimes extremely sexual, some more than others. Being a good wife simply means that whenever your Husband wants, then you should please him. Even though I sometimes may feel sick, I ensure that he is please at all times.

10.) Don't fight when being physically discipline

For example: Some have disagreed with me on this point, meaning that being won over is better than simply submitting. To me, the Husband already owns the wife, why the need to be won over?

11.) Never argue with him (nag)

For example: Simply to what he tells you to. Don't argue, you have no right to and that way being physically discipline would be as rough on you as it would be.

12.) Do acts of worshipping

For example: Sometimes referred to male supremacy worship, I simply mean that showing how he is master over you. In my instance, kneeling before his presence, retrieving the tool of punishment, being branded with his name, collared in public, wedding rituals showing you have just become his property.